Tuesday, May 10, 2011

My Boyfriend Doesn't Want to Marry Me - How to Change His Mind and Get Him to Commit


My boyfriend wants to marry me. Sad, is not it? When a woman has a very emotionally invested in the relationship and the man she loves tells her that he was not ready or not ready to get married, it was heartbreaking. You've got two choices if you find yourself in that situation. You can end things with him and go on to try and find a man who is eager to marry you, or you can try and change your boyfriend thinks. Although most people will tell you to break off and start a new search for her future husband, who did not really want to want to do. Love is not replaced, and if you are sure your boyfriend is a man destined to marry you, you need to do everything you can to see that it is his fate too.

If your boyfriend will not marry, you must determine what the cause for it. For some people it is fear of losing freedom. They predict that to give up their friendships and their hobbies to spend time with her husband. If you think that this May be contributing to her boyfriend's refusal to commit to you, you have to convince him that you do not want to steal his life away from him. You can do this most effectively running it with their actions. Keep yourself engrossed in your own life and give up time with friends or your career for your relationship. If your boyfriend sees that you're happy with your life and he has no intention to change after marriage, he would be open to the idea of proposing.

Another reason why some people are not willing to make the transition from boy to man, because I feel that pressure on to their partners. If you were a non-stop talking about marriage and how it would be nice to be married, your boyfriend may be holding back because he feels you are pushing him into it. Men want to feel comfortable with making major decisions like getting married. They do not want to feel like they're cornered and have no choice about it. Back off, if you have pressure in this way. Give it some time and when you realize that you're not so focused on getting married to him anymore, he can suddenly have a change of heart.

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